How Warren Buffett, Frank Ocean Deal With Soul-Sucking Haters: “Read more than you drink”; “Don’t ever forget the reason you started doing what you do”
June 7, 2013 Leave a comment
HOW FRANK OCEAN, WARREN BUFFETT, AND OTHER BADASSES DEAL WITH SOUL-SUCKING HATERS
IF JERKS ARE BEING JERKY TO YOU, JUST “DON’T EVER FORGET THE REASON YOU STARTED DOING WHAT YOU DO.” THAT AND 5 OTHER SMART TIPS ON NOT LETTING THE STEEZ-CHALLENGED MESS WITH YOUR STEEZ.
BY: DRAKE BAER
As we in the career hustle know, the moment you start doing awesome work, you become become vulnerable to people stoked on shaming others. An example: look at the torrent of heinousness that surrounded Frank Ocean last year after he came out. So how to deal with haters? One option, as Neil Gaiman proclaimed and Ocean exhibited, is to make honeyed, soul-affecting music.
Frank Ocean, “Thinking About You”: A best practice for hate-resilience is to make strange, amazing things
But what about for the people who don’t sing soul? There is hope in the jealous working world, coming from Pioneers Press, the certifiably badass bookbinders from the prairies of Kansas. They recently blogged a few selections from their zine The Do-It-Yourself Guide to Fighting the Big Motherfuckin’ Sad, which is, according to author Adam Gnade, an antidepression handbook and a “guide to a freer, more lawless life.” As proponents of living well-lived lives, please allow us to curate a few of his more punching points below, cordoned off in helpful blockquotes.
1: “People will always shit on the things they’re scared of.”
So scare them. Innovation is heresy.
2: “Read more than you drink.”
Reading books is still one of the best ways to discover new things. Getting drunk probably isn’t–though a few beers may help you be more creative. Read more of this post